If the coach gives the answer and the client does not use it, how did the coach cause harm? \u00a0They caused harm because the coach interfered with the client figuring it out and doing it. \u00a0They interfered with the client coming up with their own idea. They also interfered with that person\u2019s development. If I give you the answer, the next time you have a question, you\u2019ll come back to me for the answer. This repeats itself over and over in the workplace. Think about managers that are overwhelmed.\u00a0 Everybody is dependent on them for everything. \u00a0That manager has literally trained the people around them to come to them with their questions, because they keep answering. In this example, the coach gave the idea to the client.\u00a0 They interfered with the client\u2019s own development by giving the answer because the client had the ability to figure it out.<\/p>\n
What if the client starts to use the idea and then runs into a problem and gives up \u2013 how did the coach cause harm? \u00a0There\u2019s a couple of things going on: first, the clients may say, well, it\u2019s about the idea the coach gave me \u2013 it doesn\u2019t work. The client may think, \u201cI tried; it didn\u2019t work. It is the coach\u2019s fault!\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 One thing to be aware of is this. \u00a0Since it was not the client\u2019s idea, they weren\u2019t invested in figuring out how to make it work. \u00a0Since it was the coach\u2019s idea, the client had no investment in making it work. \u00a0In this case it was easy for the client to give up and blame the coach. As in the first possible outcome, the coach interfered with the clients thinking and development.<\/p>\n
What if the client uses the idea and it works? How did the coach cause harm in a situation like that? \u00a0\u00a0Let\u2019s go back to what we keep saying: the coach caused harm because they got in the client\u2019s way. \u00a0The client had no opportunity to think about it, figure it out, and do it. \u00a0The coach gave them the answer. \u00a0The client has not grown, and the coach is developing an unnatural dependency on others.\u00a0 The clients will be coming to the coach the next time with a challenge asking, what do I do? \u00a0\u00a0Think also about the impact on their confidence. If they are consistently told what to do, and how to do it, are they building their own confidence in their own skill set in their own abilities? No, of course not. That\u2019s been interfered with too.<\/p>\n
Coaching is about partnering with the client to discover their own idea.\u00a0 When they implement the idea, if they face a challenge, chances are they will figure out how to move past that challenge and to make it work.<\/p>\n
What about ethics in this example?\u00a0\u00a0During coaching certification<\/span><\/a> we learn that giving the answer is not<\/strong><\/span> coaching. The coach stepped into a different role \u2013 serving as a trainer or consultant. If that happens, the return on investment goes down. When coaching follow your ethics and competencies and stay true to the role of coach for maximum value.<\/p>\n * Originally posted on #CenterforCoachingCertification<\/strong><\/a> by #CathyLiska<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Coaching is about finding a client\u2019s idea and helping them implement it. The key is to partner with the client and then make sure they get through any challenges they might face along the way.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":82,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[44,60],"tags":[50,47,49,48],"class_list":["post-81","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-benefits-of-coaching","category-coaching","tag-coach-123","tag-coaching","tag-coaching-success","tag-coaching-tips"],"aioseo_notices":[],"views":975,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.coach-123.com\/coachingblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.coach-123.com\/coachingblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.coach-123.com\/coachingblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.coach-123.com\/coachingblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.coach-123.com\/coachingblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.coach-123.com\/coachingblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7470,"href":"https:\/\/www.coach-123.com\/coachingblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81\/revisions\/7470"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.coach-123.com\/coachingblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.coach-123.com\/coachingblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.coach-123.com\/coachingblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.coach-123.com\/coachingblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}